Issue 83 July/August 2009
August 5th, 2009
Ladies’ Lamp
THY WORD IS A LAMP UNTO MY FEET
AND A LIGHT UNTO MY PATH
Psalm 119:105
DEAR LADIES
God has plainly told His people to “Love not the world,” and if anyone loves the world, “the love of the Father is not in him.” I John 2:15, 16 God has established a solid line of demarcation between the world and His people. ”Friendship with the world is enmity with God.” James 4:4 But there is a perverse spirit of compromise and amalgamation with the world among professing Christians today. “The whole world lieth in wickedness,” under the power and dominion of Satan, the author of sin, who has purposed and endeavored to ruin the works of God in the world. The Christian is under the power and dominion of Christ who has undertaken the Holy War against Satan and will conquer, dissolve, and destroy all his works. Christians should never compromise their whole-hearted love for God. “Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength.”
Our hearts are narrow and cannot love both God and the world. The world is to be crucified because it usurps the affection that should be for God alone. The world instigates and inflames our lusts and pride, our appetites for sin. “Be not conformed to this world.” Romans 12:2 We may not indulge ourselves in the godless customs and fashions of our times. We are to deny ungodliness and mortify worldly lusts. (Titus 2:12) Do not conform to the world’s template, its prevailing manners and styles that contradict God’s law and principles. The world’s principle is to glorify self; and God’s principle for Christians is to crucify self. Christians are governed by the laws of the Bible and our lives are to be conformed to the template of Christ. Compromise with the world’s corrupt and depraved culture extinguishes the light of Christian influence. The world’s system and lifestyle in all areas fall woefully short
of God’s holy standard. We are called to be holy in all manner of living because God is holy. “Be holy; for I am holy.” I Peter 1:16
Carol Swanson
“YE ARE THE LIGHT OF THE WORLD. A CITY THAT IS SET ON THE HILL CANNOT BE HID.” Matt. 5:14, 16
Martyn Lloyd-Jones explains this verse that emphasizes, “Ye (and ye alone) are the light of the world,” as an astounding declaration, because Christ is referring to each ordinary Christian. It has profound implications concerning the Christian life, making us realize our glorious, solemn privileges and responsibilities.
The meaning of light is not knowledge, as the world’s knowledge has exponentially increased, but without the biblical wisdom to properly use it. In fact, it was the era of increased knowledge that initiated the attack on the Bible and its authoritative declaration of God’s truth to man. The factors of knowledge that benefit the soul of man and his relationships are absent, and the world continues in gross darkness.
How are ordinary Christians the light of the world? Christ also said, “I am the light of the world,” meaning He and He alone is the Source who gives us this vital light.
We are transmitters of His light. The world’s people are spiritually blind, loving darkness rather than light, because their deeds are evil. The only light the world will ever see is in the lives of Christians and the gospel message we give them.
THE LIGHT OF CHRISTIAN FAMILIES
American’s largest family recently published a book, 20 and Counting, by J.B. and M. Duggar, a delightful account of their family life. They are one of those cities on the hill, shining the light of Christ with a biblical worldview to a vast audience around them. They started early in their marriage to humbly submit to Scripture in every area of their family life.
BIBLICAL WORK ETHIC
The marital foundation of Christians should be firmly grounded in obedience to Scripture, with both parents operating in tandem. Father is the spiritual and practical head of the home, responsible to teach God’s Word to his family, best accomplished in daily family worship. Mother is the homemaker who sets the tone by her attitude and organization. For a smoothly functioning home that’s clean and neat, organization is essential, which means parents must organize themselves first.
Haphazard lifestyles are hard on children. It is wise plan a weekly schedule and make the effort to keep it. Allow some flexibility for the unexpected, but always return to the schedule. You’ll redeem the time and get much more done, in relative peace. Children function best and are happiest when they know what is expected of them. Growing up with assigned jobs and responsibilities is necessary preparation for adulthood. Teach the rules of the home to each child and set realistic rules for each age group. Be sure they understand the consequences of broken rules, to be consistently applied. Unwavering and loving consistency develops strong character.
The parents in this family of 18 children are home schooling, with a Christian education to teach a biblical worldview. They teach both boys and girls to cook, change tires on the cars, and to care for themselves and siblings in a buddy system. In a family of 20, (with 40 loads of laundry a week, 20 mouths to feed three times a day, cleaning a 7-bathroom house (which they built themselves), and large transportation vehicles to maintain,) there are plenty of opportunities for children who are organized to learn to work. It is important that children learn a biblical work ethic.
MAKING DISCIPLES OF OUR CHILDREN
Children need to be taught to reverentially fear God. “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.” Prov. 9:10 They must know the moral law of God to understand sin and God’s holy standard of righteousness. Too many people have made professions who were never broken by the law. Sin is deadly serious and will ruin all who do not mortify it. When they are convicted of their sin, they will appreciate and love the Lord Jesus Christ for His substitutionary atonement and imputed righteousness. Humble sorrow for sin in repentance, and faith in Christ alone, in a true conversion, should be the earnest prayer of Christian parents for each child. They are saved by God’s work of grace and not our persuasion.
A theologically and doctrinally sound church should be an integral part of their lives. Teach them to make sacrifices to find this church, support it and love the brethren. Prepare them to stand against the opposition and persecution they’ll face from the world. Christians are commanded to love their enemies and pray for them. Love for enemies must be without compromise of the truth.
They should be thoroughly taught all the doctrines of the gospel, and memorize a catechism with proof texts, that they might not be ignorant of any gospel truth. If their faith is soundly built on a clear understanding of the doctrines of Creation, Redemption, and a holy life of obedience, they will be prepared to discern truth from error when they leave the home. Recently, the young son of our friends was questioned by the elders for membership. The pastor asked him if he knew what it means to mortify his sin? The child gave a very lucid answer that many adults couldn’t give! He was taught and discipled by his spiritually earnest parents.
TEACHING CHARACTER
Besides home schooling with a variety of courses that fit their family, the mother of these 18 children instructs them in biblical character, using Gothard’s materials. Both parents have worked at patiently correcting their children without anger. Parents need to pray daily for God’s grace and power to humbly mortify the first flutterings of their evil emotions and anger. Parents are God’s models for the biblical character they hope to instill
in their children. The goal is to raise cheerfully obedient children by consistent and patient correction. Discipling our children in the doctrines and practices of Scripture is a major responsibility of Christian parents.
SCRIPTURAL LIFESTYLE
The world’s influence in our nation has effectively broken up the 21st century family, with moms in the workforce, absentee or unemployed dads, and children segregated in education, more influenced by peers than parents. Our nation is reaping a whirlwind from its rejection of God and scriptural principles.
One of the decisions the Duggar family made in their early days concerned debt. They determined to be obedient to God’s instructions to “Owe no man anything, but to love one another,” because “the borrower is servant to the lender.” Prov. 22:7 Debt is an oppressive albatross around the necks of many families, and a curse on our nation. After that decision, they never borrowed for anything, including car or house. They lived within God’s provision, debt-free.
Christians reflect the light and glory of Christ through Scriptural principles of humility, modesty and wholesomeness. We can’t served Christ and satisfy our lusts! The world’s distorted, bizarre fashions that fill our stores today clearly reflect the world’s seductive and sensual lusts. Christians should modestly cover body and bodice. Pray for God’s wisdom to instill a strong principle of modesty and humility in our daughters; that they will have the character and wholesome appearance of a Sarah, not a Jezebel!
May God enable all Christians to eschew the world and live in uncompromising conformity to the holy standards of Scripture; and thereby be powerful lights, shining as cities on the hill.
“LET YOUR LIGHT SO SHINE !”